MOTHERS on the Cape Flats have opened up about their heartbreaking battles with family members addicted to drugs.
In recognition of the 16 Days of Activism for No Violence Against Women and Children campaign, Heideveld Library dedicated this year’s programme to exploring the impact of substance abuse within family homes — a challenge that continues to affect daily life in the community.
To spark conversation and reflection, the library hosted an author talk with Sylvia Walker from Lakeside, author of Dealing in Death: Ellen Pakkies and a Community’s Struggle with Tik.
The event last Wednesday invited residents to explore how dwelms continue to shape families and communities. Ms Walker also reflected on the enduring relevance of her book published more than a decade ago in 2010.
Her core message focused on the importance of family members looking after themselves when living with or supporting someone struggling with addiction.
“People often believe that once the addict receives help, everything will fall into place. However, families also need boundaries, coping mechanisms, and community support to navigate the situation,” she said.
Attendee Lorraine Joshua from Heideveld said she had learned a great deal from the session. “Knowing people in my own family who face addiction, I never realised how severe the impact can be.”
“Hearing other people’s experiences made me see that some situations are even worse than your own. We must listen, learn, and share whatever we can — even small advice can help someone else,” she said.
Lilian Richards shared her story as a mother who had lived through a dangerous situation with her ex-husband, whose addiction had turned abusive.
She said the session reminded her of how close she came to harm and emphasised the importance of seeking support.
“What I went through was difficult, but I came out of it, and I want other women to know they are not alone,” she said.
Heideveld librarian Nuhaa Portland said the book had only been borrowed three times, most recently in 2022, and that many people could still benefit from its guidance. She said books not borrowed within three years were usually removed from the shelf, but added that this title remains valuable, particularly for its advice on coping mechanisms for families.
Pastor Bernard Johnson of Heideveld Outreach Ministry reflected on love and faith in recovery, saying his experience showed the importance of supporting those battling addiction.
“Faith has been a big part of my journey. Communities should not turn their backs on people struggling. Love wins them,” he said.
